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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-11-18 06:45 pm

[ SECRET POST #2512 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2512 ⌋

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Re: A random query

[personal profile] gondremark 2013-11-19 08:01 am (UTC)(link)
It would really depend on the specific situation. In general, I think I'd be troubled by having killed someone to defend myself (what makes me more worthy to live than Nasty Stranger? How do I know I'm not the one who's in the wrong here? conflicted morality!), but perfectly all right if it was to defend a close friend or family member (Friend is an important and good person, Nasty Stranger was clearly very horrible, it's good that Nasty Stranger will not be able to harm innocent people ever again, but did Nasty Stranger really need to be KILLED?).

I'm always very much more hurt by nastiness directed towards those I love than when it's actually directed towards me. Once upon a time there was this bully who was being quite an ass to me. My solution was to avoid him like the plague he was. then I was talking to someone else about it and he told me that I shouldn't feel too bad, it isn't personal, it's not that I'm unlikable, Bully is just a jerk like that, he bullies Mutual Friend too, and Mutual Friend is exemplary likeable and good. And then it mattered and I flew into a positive RAGE because Mutual Friend didn't deserve to be treated like that. Well, neither did I, but it didn't matter until there was someone else for me to defend.