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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-11-20 06:34 pm

[ SECRET POST #2514 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2514 ⌋

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Re: Dealing with jealousy

(Anonymous) 2013-11-21 03:54 am (UTC)(link)
This'll sound kind of harsh... but just get over yourself?

I'm not clear on what you are jealous of, or how close to this friend you are. Is this an internet friend? Is this a real life friend? You mentioned you get jealous when you read about her life on tumblr. How are you so certain her life is as ridiculously awesome as she makes it sound?

Not to say all people who gush or just talk about good things in their lives are liars, but maybe what you perceive as awesome isn't so much that?

If her life really is that awesome though, what are you doing to enrich your own life in the meantime? Are you just sticking around her tumblr, being jealous of her? Do you not have the time or the means to do anything else? Have you tried to find something, an interest that appeals to you and has nothing to do with her, and try to own it?

If it hurts that much to read her blogs, then try to visit less and focus on your own life and interests. No need to compare awesome life-cocks with her, just find something so that you can be content with your own life.