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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-11-30 03:25 pm

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⌈ Secret Post #2524 ⌋

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Re: crushing on a younger guy?

(Anonymous) 2013-12-01 05:37 am (UTC)(link)
As someone who's always been into younger guys, GO FOR IT. They care way, way less than you'd think. If they're attracted to you, they're attracted to you. If they're not, they're not. Same with women, really.

There absolutely is more social backlash against women who date younger men than men who date younger women (unless they date women young enough to be their daughters), but imo, it's worth it. Some younger guys are amazingly fun and sexy.

I'm in my early 30s now and I dated pretty much exclusively men in their early 20s throughout my late 20s, and my husband is 25 (22 when we met). It can absolutely work.

Re: crushing on a younger guy?

(Anonymous) 2013-12-01 02:13 pm (UTC)(link)
As someone who's always been into younger guys, GO FOR IT. They care way, way less than you'd think. If they're attracted to you, they're attracted to you. If they're not, they're not. Same with women, really.
I think I have to adopt this mindset. It's not like I'm forcing myself on him in fact... I just hate that I'll have to be the one showing all the cards with this one, because he's a bit closed off. Or you know, maybe he just hates all of us and this all will backlash on me ;). I'm thinking maybe I could wait for classes to be almost over (in 2 weeks or so) and then make myself really clear... that way I won't have to be awkward if things go to hell. Not that I'm usually awkward myself about these things, but I'm afraid he could react in an unpredictable way. I don't really know him and I can't read him at all... it was just superfast attraction on my part.

I think I'll write him some shit over fb right now though, to start seeing how he takes the extra attention.