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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-12-01 03:53 pm

[ SECRET POST #2525 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2525 ⌋

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Re: Useless talents

(Anonymous) 2013-12-01 11:19 pm (UTC)(link)
I have the amazing ability to always be misunderstood when speaking via text. And to inadvertently start huge wank when really I was just trying to make a nice simple comment.

Re: Useless talents

(Anonymous) 2013-12-02 12:44 am (UTC)(link)
how dare you (kidding!)

This happens to everyone, but if it happens every time you make a comment, do you think it's something you can work on? Try finding exactly what it is about your comment that makes people upset (content, perceived tone, etc.) and think about how you can say the same thing in a way that doesn't upset people.

Re: Useless talents

(Anonymous) 2013-12-02 12:48 am (UTC)(link)
Honestly it's gotten a lot better since going anon.

Re: Useless talents

(Anonymous) 2013-12-02 01:09 am (UTC)(link)
that's because nobody cares when we're anon

i went anon for this comment just so you wouldn't take offense

Re: Useless talents

(Anonymous) 2013-12-02 01:17 am (UTC)(link)
I've gotten offended by anons, before.

But yeah, I think there are some people who get targeted and it doesn't matter what they say. If someone read something that pissed them off once, they will follow that person around and deliberately try to start shit, when they wouldn't care about the same comment from someone else, or an anon.

It's really stupid and childish.

Re: Useless talents

(Anonymous) 2013-12-02 01:46 am (UTC)(link)
In that case, it sounds as if you managed to make a bad first impression and then people were filtering everything you said through that interpretation.