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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-12-03 06:49 pm

[ SECRET POST #2527 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2527 ⌋

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Re: Need some advice... (TW: suicide)

[personal profile] diet_poison 2013-12-04 01:06 am (UTC)(link)
yeahhh...that sounds a lot like she has serious attention issues.

Encourage her to get help (seriously). Gently point out to her that negativity is sometimes a self-fulfilling prophecy. Pray for her if you're the praying type. But I would say, don't respond to her posts that are obviously just seeking attention and self-validation. She probably isn't doing it on purpose, but I feel just saying "it's ok, you're beautiful!" every time she whines about being ugly is enabling.

I do hope she gets help and things look up for her.

And, of course, I'm not a psychiatrist, nor a parent or teacher, so take comment with a wagonload of salt.

ETA: maybe I was being too harsh. :( I've sort of been on both sides of this too but not as directly as you. So again...wagonload of salt
Edited 2013-12-04 01:27 (UTC)