[ SECRET POST #2527 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2527 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Comments

Re: Is it really necessary to tell people this?

[dethtoll]

As someone with the libido of a dead fish I can tell you that you're not obligated to tell anyone, let alone everyone. It just might be useful information to share on a contextual basis, but you don't have to sit your parents down and say "mom, dad, I'm not sexually interested in anyone."

"well uh that's... we're okay with that, anony, but when are you going to give us grandkids"

Re: Is it really necessary to tell people this?

[(Anonymous)]

lol It's more than that, though. Asexual means you lack sexual attraction, and that's something that is always constant. So telling your parents "Hey, sorry, I'm never having sex so no grandkids!" would be important if they want some.

Re: Is it really necessary to tell people this?

[dethtoll]

... duh?

Re: Is it really necessary to tell people this?

[crunchysunrises]

And, what adoption and/or sperm banks are barred to asexuals? You really don't need to tell you relatives the ins and outs of your sex life. It would be just as easy to say, "If I want to start that phase of my life, I will."

Re: Is it really necessary to tell people this?

[making_excuses]

That is not something parents have the right to know, nor do they have a right to grandchildren. If they ask, you can just answer that:

a)I don't want children
b)I plan to adopt
c)I don't know, maybe
d)I want to be a foster parent
e)I am planning on using a sperm bank
d) I don't really care about having biological children
e) any combination of the things I listed about

Also your sex life be it the lack of, is no concern of your parents...