[ SECRET POST #2527 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2527 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

How about this, then: "contributing," in the case of a household where everyone accepts some duties in order to benefit, is closer to "participating."

[nyxelestia]

That's probably a difference they understand. Unless they went to school in suburbia, in which case participate will feel even closer to pay than contribute. I'm not saying people don't understand the difference. I'm just saying that the reason why some people don't consider the use of the term "payment" as strange is because to them, it's not all that different from "contribute". On the flip side, those who do find it strange are those who do differentiate the terms more will find it strange, because it feels like paying and contributing are two different things.

[(Anonymous)]

IDGI: do you view all forms of reciprocity in relationships as a form of commerce--or imagine that most people do?

[nyxelestia]

I think the perception is the other way around - "payment" does not have to inherently mean commerce, at least for some people.

I'm just saying that for some people, terms like payment and contribution are almost completely different or have different connotations, whereas for others the differences aren't inherent, so the idea of "paying" for living in your home by doing chores is not all that strange - because it doesn't 'feel' much different than "contributing" to your home by doing chores.

[making_excuses]

That is how I think about it too, I might say I would pay to live at home, but it is in the sense that I will contribute to the household, either with money or doing stuff around the house (or both). My mother did not expect me to give her money when I lived there, nor did she ever tell me that I had to do something, but I still did it, because I lived there too.