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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-12-03 06:49 pm

[ SECRET POST #2527 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2527 ⌋

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Re: Is it really necessary to tell people this?

(Anonymous) 2013-12-04 04:20 pm (UTC)(link)
I think it kind of depends. If you're looking at it from an identity standpoint (especially if you're aromantic) and you want people to stop bothering you about trying to find a relationship, I see where it would make sense.

Otherwise, I don't think it's completely necessary to tell people what you're into (or not) sexually unless you're planning on dating them.

Even the kid thing doesn't totally make sense to me because there's no reason an asexual person couldn't have kids if they wanted. It might make it a little more difficult or complicated, but it's still an option. Saying that was the reason for not having kids would be kind of like saying you're not going to have kids because you're gay, even though gay people are totally capable of having kids. If you don't WANT them that's a separate issue, and you can just tell people you don't want them. There are plenty of people who don't, regardless of sexual orientation.