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⌈ Secret Post #2529 ⌋

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[Babylon 5, Art by A-gnosis]

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[HGTV]

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[Boy Meets World]

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[Doctor Who, "Day of the Doctor"]

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[Battlestar Galactica]

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[Brian Cox, Jim Al-Khalili]

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[Doctor Who]

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[Top Gun]

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[Once Upon a Time in Wonderland]

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I'm the anon who asked for some advice a while back.

Anyway, the guy texted me, and we agreed to catch up for coffee. But then he had to cancel because he had work that day.

I texted him again this week asking if he still wanted to catch up for coffee. No reply.

I'm a bit confused, because from the tone of his texts, it seemed like he wanted to meet up again. Should I assume he just doesn't want to see me?

I wouldn't assume that yet. At this point, it's entirely reasonable to think that something just came up, and he missed/forgot about your follow-up text. If you try texting him one more time, maybe on the weekend (if he doesn't usually work weekends) and there's still no response, then maybe start thinking he's avoiding you. But avoidance hasn't been his strategy so far, right? He's probably just busy.

This. A guy I met texted me, but I was moving apartments that weekend and it sort of fell off my radar. By the time I was like "oh yeah" again, it was two weeks later and the whole thing had moved into awkward territory.

Okay... I'm gonna text him again, since he texted me initially, and wanted to catch up for coffee.

I'm not sure if I should be like "oh by the way if you don't want to meet again that's fine", or if that would be too awkward. I'll probably just ask him if he still wants to meet up, leave it at that.

UPDATE: He replied to my text, and he totally just forgot about it, but he wants to catch up tomorrow! Yay! :)

\o/

You go anon!

Awesome! Have fun =D

Why ruin a perfectly good text relationship with trying to meet for real?

A love life these days is just "well, I texted him, and he texted me, and then we texted, and I think he wants to text me but I can't tell because he sent me this text....."

Here to tell us to get off your lawn, are you?

"Kids these days, with their ipads and their telegraphs and their morse code and their writing and their books and their cuneiform..."

I don't think you read my original post on here, otherwise you'd know I've gone on several dates with this guy, occurring in all four dimensions of space and time.

If that guy were me, then I'd say he's avoiding you.

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