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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-12-05 06:48 pm

[ SECRET POST #2529 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2529 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Babylon 5, Art by A-gnosis]


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[HGTV]


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[Boy Meets World]


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[Doctor Who, "Day of the Doctor"]


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[Battlestar Galactica]


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[Brian Cox, Jim Al-Khalili]


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[Doctor Who]


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[Top Gun]


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[Once Upon a Time in Wonderland]














Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 017 secrets from Secret Submission Post #361.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 2 - posted twice ], [ 1 - ships it ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
cassandraoftroy: Chiana from Farscape, an alien with grayscale skin and hair (Default)

Re: Phobias and relationships

[personal profile] cassandraoftroy 2013-12-06 01:03 am (UTC)(link)
No reasonable, decent, not-horrible person that you might actually want to date will think it's acceptable to choke you without your consent. The trick, of course, is in filtering out the assholes who see women as objects to be used rather than equals who are worthy of respect. In all the BDSM circles I've ever been in (which is not a huge number, admittedly), consent and negotiation were strongly emphasized. I can only imagine that the kind of people who would think surprise!choking was okay are also the kind who think it's hilarious to "accidentally" stick it in a girl's ass when having sex.