[ SECRET POST #2529 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2529 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Babylon 5, Art by A-gnosis]


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[HGTV]


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[Boy Meets World]


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[Doctor Who, "Day of the Doctor"]


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[Battlestar Galactica]


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[Brian Cox, Jim Al-Khalili]


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[Doctor Who]


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[Top Gun]


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[Once Upon a Time in Wonderland]














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Comments

Re: Phobias and relationships

[(Anonymous)]

Oh god, there is not enough WTF in the world for that.

No one, anywhere, who is even remotely reasonable as a sex partner is going to choke you without consent. That's a major, major kink to be negotiated.

And the bit about choking a woman to keep her from assuming a relationship actively makes me shudder. NOPENOPENOPENOPENOPENOPE.

For useful advice, some poeple may take consenting to sex as being consenting to *some* BDSM type things. There's a pretty big range there. I'd say there's a huge difference between taking consent to sex as allowing for "maybe I'll try a light spank in the heat of the moment" without asking, and allowing for choking, or even bondage without some form of negotiation.

If you're with a decent partner (Which, as some has said, can be the trick), they'll check with you before trying anything extreme, and certainly won't assume that choking out of nowhere is a thing to do.