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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-12-06 06:50 pm

[ SECRET POST #2530 ]


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Re: Men with rape kinds (Themselves as the rapist)

(Anonymous) 2013-12-07 01:06 am (UTC)(link)
I'm curious what you mean by "too late to do any good." What "good" do you think needed doing in a thread about sharing personal preferences?

I am well familiar with the idea of getting off on something in fantasy that the same person would find horrible and repulsive in real life. I wouldn't trust someone who I had reason to think would not respect my safewords or right to withhold consent, but that's largely independent of their kinky fantasies, in my experience.

(Honestly, I think the guys to worry about are the ones who don't consider getting off on the idea of rape to be a "kink." Calling it a kink acknowledges that it's not a typical and expected part of the standard sexual experience.)