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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-12-06 06:50 pm

[ SECRET POST #2530 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2530 ⌋

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Re: Men with rape kinds (Themselves as the rapist)

(Anonymous) 2013-12-07 01:10 am (UTC)(link)
I'm a woman and I have a rape kink of myself as the rapist. In fact, I've daydreamed some pretty elaborate fantasies of it. I am also 100% certain that I would never do something like that in real life, end of story, not because I'm certain my ~great morality~ will stop me from doing ~fulfilling my fantasy~ like I obviously want to_, but because my fantasy bears absolutely zero relation to what I like in real life. I have no desire whatsoever to do it IRL, because RL is *gasp* DIFFERENT. I have no desire to fulfill this fantasy.

For one, in a fantasy, you can control not only your actions, but the other person's reactions, your own reactions, the physical feelings, the physical appearance, and the eventual consequences. Nothing can go wrong in a fantasy, you have absolute control over what results from it, and the person you are raping is just a projection who will vanish whenever you want it to. Just like anything you have ever fantasized about is different IRL. It's apples and oranges.

Asking me if I would rape someone because I have a rape kink is basically like asking me if I would jump off a skyscraper because I have fantasies about jumping off a skyscraper and floating to the ground magically without bashing my brains out on the street.