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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-12-11 11:01 pm

[ SECRET POST #2535 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2535 ⌋

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blunderbuss: (Default)

Re: cw: rape

[personal profile] blunderbuss 2013-12-12 05:26 am (UTC)(link)
Considering how many times I've seen people get outraged that having sex with a very drunk person is legally considered rape, I wouldn't be so sure that it's a myth. Hell, I've seen people get angry that not stopping after hearing 'no' is rape. (Looking at you, Dan Savage and your shitty fans.)
ill_omened: (Default)

Re: cw: rape

[personal profile] ill_omened 2013-12-12 06:01 am (UTC)(link)
http://yesmeansyesblog.wordpress.com/2009/11/12/meet-the-predators/

http://www.wcsap.org/sites/www.wcsap.org/files/uploads/webinars/SV on Campus/Repeat Rape.pdf

(David Lisak and Stephanie McWhorter are the word in studying rape in a college and military enviroment).

http://www.middlebury.edu/media/view/240951/original/PredatoryNature.pdf

"Many of the motivational factors that were identified in incarcerated rapists have been shown to apply equally to undetected rapists. When compared to men who do not rape, these undetected rapists are measurably more angry at women, more motivated by the need to dominate and control women, more impulsive and disinhibited in their behavior, more hyper-masculine in their beliefs and attitudes, less empathic and more antisocial."

The men who take advantage of drunk women are not typically normal nice guys involved in a messy communication issue of mistaken consent or female regret. They are deliberately seeking out women in vulnerable positions so they can act out feelings of anger.

So why bother with posters and media campaigns?

http://journals.cluteonline.com/index.php/CIER/article/viewFile/1201/1185

"Rather than focusing prevention efforts on the rapists, it would seem far more effective to focus those efforts on the far more numerous bystanders – men and women who are part of the social and cultural milieu in which rapes are spawned and who can be mobilized to identify perpetrators and intervene in high-risk situations."
blunderbuss: (Default)

Re: cw: rape

[personal profile] blunderbuss 2013-12-12 07:17 am (UTC)(link)
Huh. I'll have to read through these, but I stand corrected I guess.