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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-12-11 11:01 pm

[ SECRET POST #2535 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2535 ⌋

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caerbannog: (Default)

Re: Confessions!

[personal profile] caerbannog 2013-12-12 05:37 am (UTC)(link)
Found out my father (may?) have had an abusive childhood*. :( Conflicted because I'm the favourite grandchild and was never treated so (because my grandmother and parents and aunties and uncles all kept an eye on him).

Bit :/ about it all.

But my father told me he's tried to be nothing like my grandfather and I reassured I'm I love him and he's an alright father, considering the types of kids in our family.

*explanation was vague
blunderbuss: (Default)

Re: Confessions!

[personal profile] blunderbuss 2013-12-12 05:54 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, that happened to me too. I was the youngest grandchild and so I was doted on, and then as I grew older I learned what absolutely horrible people they were to their own kids. I felt so terrible and naive for ages.

What's that saying? Growing up is watching your heroes turn human?
caerbannog: (Default)

Re: Confessions!

[personal profile] caerbannog 2013-12-12 05:58 am (UTC)(link)
I don't know that saying, but that seems about right. :/ A bit disorientating.
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Re: Confessions!

[personal profile] dreemyweird 2013-12-12 06:38 am (UTC)(link)
Same here. I... didn't really know how to treat my grandparents after that. Apparently the childhoods of my parents sucked. But it helped that my parents were equally, if not more, shitty :/
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Re: Confessions!

[personal profile] inkdust 2013-12-12 06:47 am (UTC)(link)
Over the past few years I've started to learn how bad my parents' childhoods both were. Not severely abusive, but there was definite emotional abuse, coupled with the traditional punishments of that time. It's changed the way I see my grandparents, some individually more than others.