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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-12-15 03:37 pm

[ SECRET POST #2539 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2539 ⌋

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Re: Minor Sexual Identity crisis

[personal profile] cloud_riven 2013-12-16 06:42 am (UTC)(link)
There was a certain point in my life where I thought I was gay. Not a long period, mind, but I had what I like to call the straight panic. Admitting to myself that, yeah I don't just have bisexual tendencies, I'm just sexual pansexual whatever the fuck anyone wants to call it, came rather easily since it was easy to discard my previous illusion that I had to "pick one" (that advice, thanks to some bad weirdos who shamed me at the time).

What was hard though was the feeling like I had some explaining to do to others who I had already introduced myself to as gay. Got a few looks, and I definitely lost queer points somehow since bisexuals don't count unless they're passing as gay, eh, but ah well. I do still have the tendency to introduce as gay in person though since that is where I sway for the most part (75%?). Mostly I just roll with it and admit to someone that they're hot or whatever and yank out my "sexuality is fluid, and I'm so comfortable enough with mine to know that you're a factual cutie ;)" speech.

Hell, I don't even think checking out the one guy makes you any less gay. That's just a man crush :U