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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-12-16 07:10 pm

[ SECRET POST #2540 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2540 ⌋

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Re: writing a male flirt who doesn't come across as "gross"

[personal profile] intrigueing 2013-12-17 05:52 am (UTC)(link)
Honest compliments and signals but not TMI or avid staring. Throwing around pick-up lines, or showing more interest in saying and doing flirty stuff for your own sake rather than your subject is gross. Making the subject feel desired and entertained is sexy.

Think about it logically -- the purpose of flirting is to show someone that you're interested in them and convince them that they're sexy/funny/cute/interesting: Good flirting does exactly that. Bad flirting a bunch of weird fake behavior that is flirting for flirting's sake, according to dumb tips that someone gave you.

AYRT

(Anonymous) 2013-12-17 06:48 pm (UTC)(link)
Ahhhh.

Yeah that really helps (AND makes it easier to write). Writing and remembering that all I want to do is make the girl he's with feel flattered is pretty simple.

....and now I realize how silly my question is.