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fandomsecrets2013-12-22 03:41 pm
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I thought it was just because he needed more money to keep the sites going.
If he had issues with people posting preemptive links they I would have thought he'd have just talked to the people doing it and they would have stopped and the mods at markspoils would have enforced it.
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(Anonymous) 2013-12-23 05:55 pm (UTC)(link)And all of that seems pretty generous and accommodating of the less fortunate when you consider more than 13,500 free videos were downloaded last month and only 120 purchased. The bandwidth alone for this project put him $6k in debt.
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I did start watching Veronica Mars so I might be commenting again soon.
Anyway, the point is I don't know much of what has been going on. Why are you mad?
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(Anonymous) 2013-12-22 11:43 pm (UTC)(link)And that verging on radfemanon attitude is bad enough, but it's not ever-present, so I usually just ignore it when it pops up and stay out of fights. But things just came together that day that made me forget that cardinal rule, and I offended a bunch of people and ended up banned, because clearly those three comments that I made are indicative of me being the sort of person who will just come in with derailing tactics and make everything horrible for everyone, I must be banned.
Never mind that I've 9 months and nearly 600 comments with no problems, those three make me an unsafe monster, so GTFO. Sorry, didn't mean this to turn into a novel, but I guess not being able to say anything makes me want to say everything.
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And you've just got to let it go, because carrying around a bunch of anger isn't a good for you. Recognize that it's a place where a handful of "unacceptable" comments overwrite months of good times, and where words all of a sudden stop being thoughts of a real person and start being tactics of an enemy. They need enemies so they can feel like heroes. It was actually Noodles here who helped me realize when it happened to me that they wouldn't let me apologize and they certainly won't forgive me, and for a long time that really hurt. But you know whose problem that is?
Theirs. It's not mine, and it's not yours, it's theirs.
So mourn what you've lost -- it always sucks to lose a sense of a community, especially if you're kind of a loner offline -- but then find some new blogs. Don't let that loss have power over you. Don't give THEM that power over you. Watch a new show. Follow some fun celebs on Twitter or read a book. Start your own blog or pick up a new hobby. Find something that will take your mind off of that place until you can think about it without being angry or feeling hurt. Because left to run unchecked, those feelings can fester and become toxic. That place isn't worth that, and you're worth more than that (and so am I).
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Secret 5 - Mark Watches (reviewer)
I feel kind of like "SPOILS" spoiled free videos. I know it doesn't take THAT MUCH work to paste an old URL into the bar and change some numbers, but I bet there are a tonne of people who wouldn't do that or re-watch an episode after the post goes live if the pre-emptive links weren't an option.
I don't MIND paying, because I feel like Mark's gone out of his way to keep them cheap and provide ways for people to view for free at the mercy of others, but I just feel this way anyway.