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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-12-23 07:02 pm

[ SECRET POST #2547 ]


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A TL;DR TALE OF WOE, SORROW AND ATTEMPTED ADULTERY

(Anonymous) 2013-12-24 01:13 am (UTC)(link)
Like a year to six months ago I was having trouble with my partner and we almost broke up several times. I was kinda flirting with this other guy at the same time, and I went over to his house and hung out a lot with him. Nothing happened because I wanted him to make the first move and I was still not sure if I was gonna break up with my partner. At the same the guy I was hanging with was also hanging with this other woman, who was married. (I'm not married but I've been with my partner a long time.)

Fast forward to now: I didn't break up with my partner and we are doing really good. Recently I found out that the woman my dude friend was hanging with is about to divorce her husband and is dating my dude friend. I should not be jealous and angry about this BUT I AM. Like, what's she got that I didn't. I mean, I guess she's either got the balls to break up with her husband when shit ain't going well or the cowardice to not try to fix the relationship if it were fixable, as I did.

But, I'm still unreasonable jealous and irritated at this turn of events because I really liked this guy and I seriously considered breaking it off with partner and pursuing him. Guess it's good I didn't, because he obviously liked her better in hindsight. (And one time I was having dinner with him and he was playing some game on his phone with her and I'm still kind of pissed about that. We were having dinner together, wth!)

Re: A TL;DR TALE OF WOE, SORROW AND ATTEMPTED ADULTERY

(Anonymous) 2013-12-24 01:19 am (UTC)(link)
he sounds like a loser tbh

Re: A TL;DR TALE OF WOE, SORROW AND ATTEMPTED ADULTERY

(Anonymous) 2013-12-24 01:26 am (UTC)(link)
Ayrt

lol, that's pretty much what my other friend said. She thinks the other woman is flaky because just two months ago she was telling her how much she loved her husband and now she's telling her how much she loves my dude friend. My friend lost respect for the dude for dating her. (We are all co-workers; it's very incestuous here and everyone dates everyone else and knows everyone's business.)

Re: A TL;DR TALE OF WOE, SORROW AND ATTEMPTED ADULTERY

(Anonymous) 2013-12-24 01:30 am (UTC)(link)
DA

Dude, I would run screaming from that office, and find another job SO so fast. That is seriously messed up, and is definitely a small step away from becoming a huuuuuuuge HR fiasco if something goes wrong.

Re: A TL;DR TALE OF WOE, SORROW AND ATTEMPTED ADULTERY

(Anonymous) 2013-12-24 02:46 am (UTC)(link)
Ayrt

Nah. I work for the Feds which is completely different from a civilian office environment and it's not really that much of an issue. Just good old office drama and intrigue that I stay out of for the most part (I'm the quiet one that people don't have anything bad to say about, or so the gossip goes.)