[ SECRET POST #2547 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2547 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 043 secrets from Secret Submission Post #363.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

Re: Not Fandom Secrets/Confessions:

[(Anonymous)]

Not your responsibility. It'll come out one way or another, and you really don't want to be in the middle of that, trust me.

Re: Not Fandom Secrets/Confessions:

[(Anonymous)]

this

you will only make yourself an attractive scapegoat

the only good thing that could come out of it is if you want to catalyze things to make everything explode sooner rather than later, but, see above

Re: Not Fandom Secrets/Confessions:

[(Anonymous)]

I get OP is not close to her parents, and it's her decision.

But I am close to my parents and love them a lot. I don't think I could bear to just ignore it and not do anything if my family were in that situation. I don't know what I'd do - probably talk privately with the cheating party, and either give huge disapproving hints or confront them outright. I don't know if that's the right thing to do or not, but I would feel responsibility for any family member being hurt.

Re: Not Fandom Secrets/Confessions:

[(Anonymous)]

To each their own. My best friend was really close to her parents too and she ended up getting blamed for wrecking the family when she brought her dad's affair to light. They apologized for it, but that was years later and the damage was done.

I'm not saying that scenario is a given, but it is a possibility, and OP needs to be aware of that before moving forward with anything.

Re: Not Fandom Secrets/Confessions:

[fingalsanteater]

Yeah, this, seriously. If OP is still living at home and dependent on their parents, they need to keep their opinions on shit like this to themselves. No pointed comments, like someone said up thread. No secret discussions on how disappointed they are. No ultimatums like "If you don't tell the truth, I will."

Just let that shit lie and go about your business because no good will ever come of inserting your opinions or self-righteousness into your parents lives, trust me.

Re: Not Fandom Secrets/Confessions:

[shortysc22]

My dad lied to my mom for years and I ended up being the one to tell my mom the truth when I was 13. I will never forget that phone call to my mom (my dad and I had been on vacation and I called her to talk to her and just blurted it out to her).

It's been years and I will never forget that I had to be the one to tell my mom. It took me years just to forgive him in the first place and it's definitely damaged our relationship a lot.

Re: Not Fandom Secrets/Confessions:

[(Anonymous)]

Oh god yes x1000

source: personal experience