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(Anonymous) 2013-12-28 12:36 am (UTC)(link)The difference being that in our culture death and murder is a serious charge, whereas rape is often brushed off or told that the victim was somehow responsible and asking for it. If rape were taken as seriously as murder and other violent crimes I think I would have no problem hearing jokes about it, but as it's treated with a lack of seriousness in real life seeing people make jokes basically backs that up and pisses me off.
Also, I know that death jokes happen but I've got to say that dudes tend to joke about rape (and specifically how something is not really rape, like drugging someone) more than they do about death or murder. But maybe I'm just seeing the wrong off color jokesters.
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(Anonymous) 2013-12-28 12:40 am (UTC)(link)Nah, not really.
Depending on who is the dead and/or who is the murderer it may not even matter at all. The same goes for many violent crimes.
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(Anonymous) 2013-12-28 04:04 am (UTC)(link)when you're angry at someone is not the same as joking about the actual act of murder
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(Anonymous) 2013-12-28 04:12 am (UTC)(link)Also, can I just say that someone saying "go die in a fire" would freak me out more than someone who'd say "go get raped"? When I was seven there was a fire in my apartment building in the middle of the night and by the time we realized we couldn't get out by ourselves-- we had to wait for the firefighters. My twin died of smoke exhalation and my mom has burns all over her arms. It's been 12 years and I'm still not over it. I freak out at the sound of sirens and don't get me started on actual fire. I won't even cook.
Do you know how many people's homes are destroyed yearly because of fires? How many people die? A LOT. And yet no one bats an eyelash when someone says "go die in a fire" or "go burn in hell" or whatever.
Rape is terrible, I know that and I get it. But there are millions of other things that are just as bad or even worse (it's different for each person, like me, who'd rather be raped than burned alive) and yet they're taken lightly and joked about and no one gives a damn because "there's no culture for it".
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(Anonymous) 2013-12-28 05:02 am (UTC)(link)I've mostly heard women brushing it off or telling jokes about it. We're definitely hanging with different crowds.