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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-12-28 04:21 pm

[ SECRET POST #2552 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2552 ⌋

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Re: mentally kicking myself

(Anonymous) 2013-12-28 09:58 pm (UTC)(link)
I think it's totally natural to be unhappy and kind of angry when something like that happens, and you're definitely 'allowed' to be upset about it. Shit like that sucks. Feelings suck.

At the same time, though, I don't think your friend or your crush really did anything wrong, so try to remember that, even if you're feeling shitty towards them and it's hard to be kind to them. I mean, there wasn't any commitment, and... I mean, if I can be real here, you've been crushing on the guy for 2 years, it's not like you didn't have time to make a move. It's just a shitty situation, the kind of thing that happens in life. It's not your fault, it's not their fault, it's just a thing.

But I'm sorry that you're in that situation, and I know that it sucks, and you really shouldn't feel gross and insecure about it, but there's no way around it. It sucks, and I'm sorry.

Re: mentally kicking myself

(Anonymous) 2013-12-28 10:12 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you.

I don't think I feel entitled to be angry with either of them. Logically speaking, there's nothing to feel angry about. But it hurts and... yeah.
I've been avoiding both because I don't want to say anything I'll regret, and I don't really feel confrontational, just defeated.