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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-12-28 04:21 pm

[ SECRET POST #2552 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2552 ⌋

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Re: mentally kicking myself

(Anonymous) 2013-12-29 02:41 am (UTC)(link)
I've been in a similar situation before.

I tried not to blame my friend for a long time, I tried really hard to get over feeling hurt that someone I care about would make a shitty decision, knowing that I would be devastated.

The thing is though, I would never have done the same thing to any of my friends. My other friends were pretty disgusted by it, and wanted me to ditch her.

We ended up having a fight a few years later because it wasn't just a problem in that field, she just didn't seem to care about or respect my feelings in any situation.

If you wouldn't do it yourself, why put up with someone who did it to you?

As for the crush, we ended up salvaging our friendship and eventually parted on good terms. He made a move after this had happened, but my feelings for him were really messed up. It was a good lesson though. Next time I like someone that much, I'm asking them out. If they say no, I'll mope for a while but I'll get over it.

+1

(Anonymous) 2013-12-29 04:12 am (UTC)(link)
The thing is though, I would never have done the same thing to any of my friends.

Yes, this exactly. And it would make me question the strength of that friendship.

AYRT

(Anonymous) 2013-12-29 06:18 am (UTC)(link)
Oh good. I was starting to think I was the only one.

Re: mentally kicking myself

(Anonymous) 2013-12-29 04:16 pm (UTC)(link)
op here

I'm sorry you went through that. I'm slowly beginning to question my relationship with my friend, now that the initial shock has worn off.
I still care about my friend, and we've been through a lot, but yeah, I definitely question our relationship now.