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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-12-28 04:21 pm

[ SECRET POST #2552 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2552 ⌋

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Re: mentally kicking myself

(Anonymous) 2013-12-29 05:22 am (UTC)(link)
It's okay to be sad about this, but you have to remember that you can't call dibs on a person. If you don't want this to happen, don't silently crush on someone for TWO YEARS. Ask them out. Yes, it's a risk, but guess what? Very little in this life that's worth having comes risk-free. As for never trusting them again... how did they betray your trust? (Remember, no calling dibs on a person is allowed.) You weren't in a relationship with your crush. You do not get to decide who your friends sleep with. Your friend is not obliged to prioritize your crush over their own feelings even if he/she knew about your crush.

Bottom line is, if you won't act on your own feelings and desires, why would you expect everyone else to do it for you?

Re: mentally kicking myself

(Anonymous) 2013-12-29 04:19 pm (UTC)(link)
thank you

my crush had told me they like me back, and we were supposed to get together after the holidays... lol

I agree, I don't have a say when it comes to other people's relationships. I just wasn't exactly prepared for something like this.

Re: mentally kicking myself

(Anonymous) 2013-12-29 07:30 pm (UTC)(link)
After the holidays, yet he was ready to sleep with your friend out of 'loneliness'? No. Ditch his ass, he's going to play you.