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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-12-28 04:21 pm

[ SECRET POST #2552 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2552 ⌋

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cassandraoftroy: Chiana from Farscape, an alien with grayscale skin and hair (Default)

Re: Facebook question

[personal profile] cassandraoftroy 2013-12-29 07:12 am (UTC)(link)
I don't think the mutual friend owes you an apology; if anything, I think the person who blew up at you owes both you AND the mutual friend an apology, for using the mutual friend's FB as a platform to be shitty to one of their other friends.
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Re: Facebook question

[personal profile] comma_chameleon 2013-12-29 11:31 am (UTC)(link)
Agreed. If some random friend of a friend went off on me on said mutual friend's post, I'd be embarrassed for THEM, but I wouldn't expect our mutual friend to apologize for someone else's behaviour.

Honestly, I'd probably privately message the other person and point out that if they've got a problem with something I've posted then they should message me personally, not muck up a friend's post with something like that, mostly because as someone said above, they shouldn't put our mutual friend in a position where they could potentially have to 'choose sides' or something of that ilk.

Also OP, I can't help but be curious as to what you could have said that would have set off a 'stranger'. But I'm nosy that way. XD

Re: Facebook question

(Anonymous) 2013-12-29 12:57 pm (UTC)(link)
I won't get into it in case they read F!S (based on how I know this friend it wouldn't surprise me), but essentially I think I ticked off an uber SJW.

And yeah, you're right that it should be up to the other person, rather than the mutual friend being put in a bad position.