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⌈ Secret Post #2554 ⌋

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[Hobbit movies, Silmarillion]

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[Ripper Street]

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[Avengers]

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[Sekai-ichi Hatsukoi]

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[Game of Thrones]

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[Sherlock Holmes/Star Trek: The Next Generation]

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[Soukyuu no Fafner]

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[Attack on Titan]

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[Goo Goo Dolls]

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I'm sorry, OP. Forgive me, but you sound young... which is good! Because this problem is not at all uncommon and you can move past it, I promise. It'll take some discipline on your part though, because you do have to cut ties and put more effort into looking elsewhere.

Try to distance yourself physically if you can. Even when you're at the same event, stop by for a friendly hello, tell him it's nice seeing him again and then MOVE ON. Engage as little as possible without seeming rude, which should be relatively easy at a family gathering. Say you've got a lot of people to catch up with, that you need to go help with X, that you promised you'd call someone at this time, etc. etc. You can even try excusing yourself from some of the events to see other friends instead.

In the meantime, put yourself out there. Make more friends, check out other dating possibilities. The more time you spend mooning over this guy you're not going to get, the more you cut yourself off from people and relationships with real potential. Remember that you've never dated this guy, so a lot of what you find ideal about him is mostly fantasy. That's why no real life guy measures up-- you're daydreaming about someone who's not real. Don't give up your chance at finding real love for a fantasy. You can do this.

THIS THIS THIS! OP, listen to these words of wisdom. They speak truth and you will be so much more happy if you listen to them.

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