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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-12-30 06:38 pm

[ SECRET POST #2554 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2554 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Hobbit movies, Silmarillion]


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[Ripper Street]


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[Avengers]


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[Sekai-ichi Hatsukoi]


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[Game of Thrones]


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[Sherlock Holmes/Star Trek: The Next Generation]


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[Soukyuu no Fafner]


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[Attack on Titan]


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[Goo Goo Dolls]
















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Re: The guy I love is never going to love me back :(

[personal profile] darkmanifest 2013-12-31 06:15 am (UTC)(link)
It's fucked up that you're literally forced to deal with him on a personal level - like you said, you'd probably be able to get over him a lot more quickly without having to see him so often in your private life.

Unasked-for advice from someone with a very avoidant personality: You gotta ask yourself just how seriously do you need to get over him. Because if you're an adult and have a choice in the matter, you could decide to make yourself scarce at all these gatherings where he'll be until you're more in control of your feelings. Just like your family isn't obligated to change their relationship with him for your feelings, you aren't obligated to show up just because your family wants to continue the relationship.

So, don't go, if you can. Spend your new amounts of free time shoring up your defenses, going on a couple of first dates with new guys, and not thinking about him or having to see him until your feelings don't make you so miserable.

I hope you feel better, mate.
Edited 2013-12-31 06:16 (UTC)