[ SECRET POST #2558 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2558 ⌋

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[Frozen]


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[Cabin in the Woods]


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[Trailer Park Boys]


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08. [SPOILERS for Elementary]



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09. [SPOILERS for Zelda comic]



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11. [SPOILERS for Dan and Mab's Furry Adventures]
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Comments

Re: AYRT

[(Anonymous)]

ayrt

Tbh it sounds like you totally made the right call on that one.

The weird thing is that my friends who have cheated are usually the type to really take responsibility for their actions, but when it comes to the cheating they excuse it all or say it's a blameless act. It's really, imo, out of character and I think that's why I can keep them as friends, because it is so out of character.

Re: AYRT

[(Anonymous)]

Is it, though? The kind of thinking where you justify an act that looks very inexcusable from an outside perspective tends to be the kind of thinking that's surprisingly pervasive. It's sort of like saying that someone is a great person, but occasionally they do this out of character thing and rob a convenience store. But! They have a good reason for doing so* and they're not really at fault even though they took the money. Is the person who stole a good person who had this weird glitch about robbery, or are they a thief who mostly manages to behave themselves?

I could see a justification for your friends dating a person who's cheating, but calling it a blameless act is maybe pushing it a little far. Nothing that you have the choice to NOT do that results in so much pain is blameless.


* For this analogy to work we must assume that this reason isn't stealing out of sheer necessity, because your friends don't need to have a relationship with a person in a committed monogamous relationship, they choose to do so.

AYRT

[(Anonymous)]

Thanks. I feel a lot better health wise too. I have a heart condition, so I can't take a lot of stress. And my ex-friend would constantly pressure me to do certain things I wasn't comfortable with because of this "no responsibility" attitude. I kept refusing to do it and she'd give me hell for it. So thank you for reassuring me that I made the right choice.