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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-01-05 03:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #2560 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2560 ⌋

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Re: This pissed me off (TW: suicide)

(Anonymous) 2014-01-05 10:44 pm (UTC)(link)
-coughs- Can you look for a caregivers support group in your area? Or, if not there, one of the online ones? 'Cause it sounds like it might really help since it'll give you a group who understands what you're going through/will listen to you vent.

Or...if you'd like, I could pm you my e-mail or something? Since I've been where you are and it's hard if you can't vent to someone.
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Re: This pissed me off (TW: suicide)

[personal profile] making_excuses 2014-01-05 10:56 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't like support groups, the tend to be so Politically Correct and thoughtful, also pretty big on how much of an hero or how strong we are to support someone who is mentally ill. I get why that would be helpful for people, but I don't fit in. Just like I don't fit into the support groups for foster kids.

I have friends I vent to once in a while, I just don't like putting it all on them. I deal with it quite well most of the time, this just came out because I have been pissed at all the tumblr posts that makes mentally ill people into some kind of super strong special snowflakes that everyone has to care for. Not that I don't think we should care for everyone on this planet or be there for those in need, but being sick does not make you stronger or better than anyone else.

My life is pretty good most of the time, and I love my family even if they are fuckings idiots most of the time. They do love me and support me back, but when they are at their worst someone has to help them. And apparently that role is mine. Thank you for offering tho Anon, and if you ever need anyone to talk to I am around!