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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-01-09 06:50 pm

[ SECRET POST #2564 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2564 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2014-01-10 12:06 am (UTC)(link)
Having your clit touched only feels good and exciting if you're already aroused. If you're not, you have to manipulate your ladyparts more forcefully than just a "caress" for it to feel good -- rubbing, especially the sort of rubbing where your fingers stay stationary on your skin, and your skin moves over the nerves underneath. If mere touch could involuntarily arouse all the time, women would be constantly (rather only occasionally) aroused by the friction of their underwear.

I don't know, maybe you know this/have tried this already, but this is just in case you don't.

Also, a lot of women don't have sensitive nipples. Don't sweat it.
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slight tmi

[personal profile] hwc 2014-01-10 12:15 am (UTC)(link)
I'm reading a lot of het fic atm and all the breast/nipple fondling is such a turn-off for me. Any touch on any part of me can be arousing for me, but around my chest it's like I'm dead. I can't even suspend my disbelief enough for one measly sex scene.

Re: slight tmi

(Anonymous) 2014-01-10 12:16 am (UTC)(link)
I hate it because I'm way too sensitive there and it's painful.
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+1

[personal profile] ninthlife 2014-01-10 12:28 am (UTC)(link)
Same here. I'm super sensitive. The feeling of being over-stimulated (by just about any kind of stimulation) actually makes my stomach twist in knots. I can't stand reading about nipples being touched too much or pinched, either. It's just, ugh...

Re: +1

(Anonymous) 2014-01-10 01:42 am (UTC)(link)
ugh same here about the nipples can't even read about it without feeling grossed out

Re: slight tmi

(Anonymous) 2014-01-10 01:51 am (UTC)(link)
Me too. It sucks. Not as bad as it apparently sucks for the OP, but I feel like I'm missing out on like 50% of the potential fun.

Re: slight tmi

(Anonymous) 2014-01-10 07:18 am (UTC)(link)
Happens in slashfic too (nipple fondling, not breasts). Slash or het, it's...eh, not so much a turn-off, but definitely something I just gloss over because...meh? Weirdness?

(Anonymous) 2014-01-10 12:19 am (UTC)(link)
Are other women not constantly getting little zings of arousal from when the seam hits their clit or when they cross their legs or sit a certain way? (My underwear generally does not ride so that it just constantly touches my clit.)

(Anonymous) 2014-01-10 12:25 am (UTC)(link)
It really varies a LOT. Some women have more sensitive clits, some clits are more sensitive from one angle while others are more sensitive from another, etc. The formation of different women's clitoral hood plays a role, I think.
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[personal profile] fingalsanteater 2014-01-10 12:57 am (UTC)(link)
My clit is protected by my outer labia so I don't have that problem.

(Anonymous) 2014-01-10 01:49 am (UTC)(link)
I think you are misunderstanding or just not picturing it correctly.
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[personal profile] fingalsanteater 2014-01-10 03:24 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, tell me more about my own body works. Seams or underwear don't rub against my clit unless I yank the crotch between my labia. Crossing my legs does nothing for me.

(Anonymous) 2014-01-10 03:47 am (UTC)(link)
Same here, to all of it.

(Anonymous) 2014-01-10 01:32 am (UTC)(link)
if it's tmi time I can get little zings of arousal while sat on the toilet when wiping off. Not all the time but on occasion. I guess it's just a position thing.

(Anonymous) 2014-01-10 03:18 am (UTC)(link)
Every body is different, but I personally can tell when I'm ovulating because of this, lol. That's the only time it happens for me, though, because that's when my bits are just ultra sensitive and READY FOR IT.

(Anonymous) 2014-01-10 08:59 pm (UTC)(link)
Naw. Even when I am aroused and my clitoris is swollen and ready for some fondling, my clitoral hood is long and keeps it covered. I have to actually roll it back to get at it. It's annoying, because I could be at the cusp of orgasm and then I have to fumble to get at my clit, and before I know it, the moment's passed and I have to start all over again.

(Anonymous) 2014-01-11 12:11 am (UTC)(link)
I fucking HATE losing it. I need constant clitoral stimulation to really get off, and sometimes I end up switching hands right when I'm almost there... and yeah.

(Anonymous) 2014-01-10 04:40 am (UTC)(link)
I have sensitive nipples, to the point I hate having them touched. I genuinely dislike it like 95% of the time.