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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-01-09 06:50 pm

[ SECRET POST #2564 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2564 ⌋

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[personal profile] intrigueing 2014-01-10 12:22 am (UTC)(link)
Well, they're not exactly instant pleasure buttons. A lot of women have to be psychologically aroused first before those areas become sensitive, and the level of necessary psychological arousal varies a lot from person to person. Plus, stuff like anxiety or shyness can put a big damper on things when you're with another person. Or if this issue is going through your mind when you touch yourself. I doubt there's anything "defective" about you. Everyone's different, and you might just need to experiment to see what works for you. If it's a really stubborn problem that no amount of experimentation can get around, maybe mention it to your doctor and ask what kinds of things might cause this issue?

Also, are you on any medications? Because some of them can cause problems with sexual performance, for women as well as men.