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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-01-09 06:50 pm

[ SECRET POST #2564 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2564 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2014-01-10 03:07 am (UTC)(link)
This is actually pretty common. It's called sexual anhedonia, and while it doesn't cause a lot of problems (besides the obvious!) in and of itself, it can be a symptom of several underlying issues. If you genuinely don't get sexual sensation from those parts of your body, and it's bothering you, see a doctor about it if possible. They may be able to tell you whether it's a symptom of an underlying problem, or just an issue with sensitivity, and they'll probably be able to offer you some suggestions either way. I know it's scary going to see a doctor about something that private (trust me, I know: I've spent waaay more time at the gyno than I ever wanted), but it's probably the thing most likely to help. (Assuming you can afford it. I'm British, and I tend not to consider that some other countries don't have an NHS-equivalent...) Anyway, if possible, make it a priority.

Of course, if it's not bothering you, that's fine, but the tone of the secret and your comment suggests that's not the case. Plus, like I say, it can be symptomatic of other issues, so it's worth getting checked out at some point. It may well just be a mental block or a stimulation issue, but... hey, better safe than sorry, right?

(nb: not actually an expert, I'm not qualified yet and when I am it'll be for surgery not gyno)