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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-01-09 06:50 pm

[ SECRET POST #2564 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2564 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2014-01-10 03:31 am (UTC)(link)
You don't have to be the passive partner at all, nor does it mean you'd be bad at sex. If someone has ever told you that you just have to like what they're doing, THAT person is likely TERRIBLE at sex. If you're talking about messages received from society, those messages are still wrong, but I know that's what a lot of us learn and internalize about sex. :(

Good sex is really just about communication and a willingness to work out any places where needs/desires don't mesh, from all participating parties. That's it. There is no particular way your body needs to be, nothing in particular you are required to enjoy.