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(Anonymous) 2014-01-11 12:37 am (UTC)(link)I'm in my late 20s, virgin, ftm (I include this because I've been on hormones over a year, and my clitoris has grown a bit) and have been masturbating a pretty good length of time. I know how to do things that make me feel good. Generally that is clitoral stimulation with anal vibration. I'll sometimes gently run my finger over my vaginal opening, but I don't like putting anything inside. I tried, and it felt so incredibly bizarre and if anything hindered my enjoyment, so I don't do it anymore. I pretty much try to avoid it as much as possible, and if I got into bed with someone who thought to start touching it, it's pretty much a guarantee that they're going to get a foot to the face.
Where was I going with this? Oh, right. Okay, so I masturbate anywhere from 2-10 times a day. I like it, it feels good, and I've never caused myself any permanent pain (I like a bit of pain), nor do I have hairy palms... hmm... spotty vision though.
Okay, so back on topic. I masturbate, until I feel like I've gotten to that peak, usually it's through clitoral stimulation. I can bring myself back to that peak again and again... then usually go to sleep. Anyway, I get the little spasms in my genitals that always accompany me at peak, but that's it. I've never masturbated to a point where I am making noise, or gasping and moaning (something writhing, but rarely at that too). The question comes down to... am I even having orgasms?
I mean, I always thought they were... but they always seemed so quiet, polite almost. If I do it in the middle of the day, I just get up and go about my business like nothing happened. I feel more relaxed, and less stressed, but that's about it. I've always thought it would be different with a partner, more intense... but now I'm not too sure. (I am a quiet person in general too).
tldr : Masturbation feels reealllly really really good, but I've always wondered am I actually having an orgasm?
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(Anonymous) 2014-01-11 06:04 am (UTC)(link)Sounds like an orgasm to me. I grew up where the door between my room and my sister's room HAD to be open, because she was a control freak, and scared of the dark, so, I grew up to be very quiet about it.
Sometimes, it's nothing more than a little shudder, othertimes it's just kind of a rictis in the legs.
Though, typically, after I reach that peak, I don't want to go at it anymore and I just want to go to sleep. A couple of times, I'll hit a couple of peaks intentionally, and then go to sleep.
You mentioned genital spasms. Y'know that tightening you can do, kegals, is it kind of like that, but without doing it intentionally? Then, yep, I'm pretty sure that's an orgasm.
And, I'm a roughly 3-10 times a day kind of guy myself...I do it in the middle of the day if I get a chance, and I can hop up and feel MUCH better about the whole damn world afterward too! ^_^
Hope that helps!
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(Anonymous) 2014-01-11 06:56 am (UTC)(link)If it's just because you never make noise, I'd say that's pretty normal. In all the years I've been masturbating and orgasming, I've never felt any need to moan or scream. Sometimes I pant or gasp because I need the air. This might also have to do with the fact that I've never lived alone, so I haven't tried to change the quiet thing. Though, over the years, I think I've had more and more intense orgasms because as I've gone on, I've had more by way of leg spasms.
But then, I might not be exactly normal, because I seem to have a refractory period like a man does. As in, even at my horniest, I still need like six hours before I can go again.