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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-01-10 07:05 pm

[ SECRET POST #2565 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2565 ⌋

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iceyred: By singlestar1990 (Default)

Re: Finding out people you like are scumbags

[personal profile] iceyred 2014-01-11 02:55 am (UTC)(link)
Except they kinda did.

And I don't. I feel like someone was judged for their religion, which I happen to share. That's not a good feeling.

Re: Finding out people you like are scumbags

(Anonymous) 2014-01-11 02:58 am (UTC)(link)
In this case, what you "feel like" doesn't have any relation to what actually happened, so that's kind of your own problem - a problem which you have chosen to take out on OP in a really jerk-like fashion.

Re: Finding out people you like are scumbags

(Anonymous) 2014-01-11 03:05 am (UTC)(link)
They didn't. You need to either re-read the thread or stop projecting your own issues on to OP. Or both.

Re: Finding out people you like are scumbags

(Anonymous) 2014-01-11 02:26 pm (UTC)(link)
So because it's not a good feeling, you lash out at the OP, making them feel horrible, too? Did it make you feel better?

I'll fully admit, I judge people, too, based on their choice in religion. I was raised Roman Catholic, but I left the Church because I realized that my belief system and the Church's stated positions on things do not mesh at all anymore.

If I find out someone is staunchly Roman Catholic, I will be guarded. It's not that I won't like them, or be social with them, but we're not going to be besties until I know their positions on certain matters.

For example, I am not "out" to my family because my Mother and Brother are staunchly Roman Catholic. I do not find it a sin or a reason to be pitied because I don't choose romantic partners based on physical attributes.

I do not need to be potentially treated as a horrible person for being on birth control for purely medical reasons (I am not sexually active, nor have I ever been consensually).

I do not need to be potentially screamed at for believing that women should have a right to choose whether or not to have an abortion. That is between their God/Higher Power and them. Me? I, personally, am not even comfortable with the Morning After pill. But I'm not going to try and hold someone I don't even know to my beliefs.

So, I have reason to be guarded. That doesn't mean that you're a bad person. It's just that your religion has publicly stated views that can cause discomfort for others.