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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-01-10 07:05 pm

[ SECRET POST #2565 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2565 ⌋

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Re: Finding out people you like are scumbags

(Anonymous) 2014-01-11 02:46 am (UTC)(link)
But OP didn't say anything about dumping them just that they didn't further the friendship beyond chatting at the park or whatever. You should definitely feel scummy for your behavior in this thread.
iceyred: By singlestar1990 (Default)

Re: Finding out people you like are scumbags

[personal profile] iceyred 2014-01-11 02:55 am (UTC)(link)
Except they kinda did.

And I don't. I feel like someone was judged for their religion, which I happen to share. That's not a good feeling.

Re: Finding out people you like are scumbags

(Anonymous) 2014-01-11 02:58 am (UTC)(link)
In this case, what you "feel like" doesn't have any relation to what actually happened, so that's kind of your own problem - a problem which you have chosen to take out on OP in a really jerk-like fashion.

Re: Finding out people you like are scumbags

(Anonymous) 2014-01-11 03:05 am (UTC)(link)
They didn't. You need to either re-read the thread or stop projecting your own issues on to OP. Or both.

Re: Finding out people you like are scumbags

(Anonymous) 2014-01-11 02:26 pm (UTC)(link)
So because it's not a good feeling, you lash out at the OP, making them feel horrible, too? Did it make you feel better?

I'll fully admit, I judge people, too, based on their choice in religion. I was raised Roman Catholic, but I left the Church because I realized that my belief system and the Church's stated positions on things do not mesh at all anymore.

If I find out someone is staunchly Roman Catholic, I will be guarded. It's not that I won't like them, or be social with them, but we're not going to be besties until I know their positions on certain matters.

For example, I am not "out" to my family because my Mother and Brother are staunchly Roman Catholic. I do not find it a sin or a reason to be pitied because I don't choose romantic partners based on physical attributes.

I do not need to be potentially treated as a horrible person for being on birth control for purely medical reasons (I am not sexually active, nor have I ever been consensually).

I do not need to be potentially screamed at for believing that women should have a right to choose whether or not to have an abortion. That is between their God/Higher Power and them. Me? I, personally, am not even comfortable with the Morning After pill. But I'm not going to try and hold someone I don't even know to my beliefs.

So, I have reason to be guarded. That doesn't mean that you're a bad person. It's just that your religion has publicly stated views that can cause discomfort for others.