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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-01-25 03:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #2580 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2580 ⌋

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Re: F!S, how does one politely say

[personal profile] nyxelestia 2014-01-26 12:47 am (UTC)(link)
That first sentence, with this tacked on: "If you don't help me, we're going to fail."

And she'll probably cry, but in the long run it'll probably be good for her, or at the very least the shock should get her attention. Give her some tissues and wait awkwardly for her to be done, and when they are, just explain the reality of the situation - you need more help from her than she is giving.

If she still doesn't help, then just leave her name off the credits, so to speak - you did all the work, so make that a known fact to your boss/teacher/whoever the project is for.

If you feel guilty about her crying, just think of your project and remind yourself that you're probably doing her a favor - unless she's actually a child, then she needs to learn to hear when she's made a mistake like an adult, and learn how to at least try to fix said mistakes instead of feeling sorry for herself. Crying is optional in both situations - some people just cry easy - but the important part is getting her butt into gear.