[ SECRET POST #2583 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2583 ⌋

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Comments

OP here

[(Anonymous)]

I'm sorry that happened to you! My dad was your age when he had me (and yeah it's different for guys, I know), my mom a bit younger, but still in her 30's. Personally I've always it was really nice to have parents who had lives before me, and were pretty settled by then. I know it comes with some risks, but then to me it was always nice to see mature couples represented in a youth-obsessed TV landscape, especially since it was not the reality of my parents, or most people around me.

I realize there are boundaries to biology - personally I just always felt it's better not to have a kid than the have one and resent them for tying you down. Anyway, I'm in my 30's by now, too, and nowhere near ready to have kids, which I know means I probably never will have them. And I think I'm getting to a point where I'm okay with that.I hope you can find happiness in other ways, anon. And I hope you saw the world, did wonderful things, and will do more.

Re: OP here

[(Anonymous)]

I like seeing mature characters presented in fandom, too, OP. I'm on the outer edge of my twenties, but I like watching shows about characters 30s and up (exceptions, sure, but generally that's the case). It's nice to see characters who act like adults because...that's what they are.

Re: OP here

[(Anonymous)]

it's better not to have a kid than the have one and resent them for tying you down

Yes, I agree with this! So much this!

Re: OP here

[mimi-sardinia.livejournal.com]

My mother got married when she was 26, and while that does not sound really old, the stories she has of her pre-marriage years still make me feel she lived a life before she settled down.

Meanwhile I'm in my mid-thirties, not interested in marriage, let alone having children, but then I had the enlightening influence of finding Childfree comms on LJ that let me know it is not a bad thing if I never have children. I just wish I could have a cat though. There is no age limit on being a Mad Cat Lady.