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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-01-28 06:56 pm

[ SECRET POST #2583 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2583 ⌋

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Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2014-01-29 01:59 am (UTC)(link)
OP, why don't you disappear as yourself, make yourself a sockpuppet account and start posting to your fandom just for fun? Put aside the standard for a bit and see if you can recapture what you used to enjoy about it?

If there's any genuine feminist feeling it'll manifest in your "absence" and in the meantime maybe you can rediscover some enjoyment. (It's amazing how other people will fill a role once they perceive it's been vacated...)

If on the other hand no one steps up to the plate, you'll know you're really alone and you can decide whether it's really too dickish an environment to remain in.

But I advocate taking a leave of absence in any case, both for your own peace of mind and to see how things stand when you aren't trying to steer them.

(Anonymous) 2014-01-29 05:40 am (UTC)(link)
Yep, as a Feminist myself, this ^^

(Anonymous) 2014-01-29 11:47 am (UTC)(link)
That's a great and really helpful suggestion.

OP

(Anonymous) 2014-01-29 07:12 pm (UTC)(link)
Thanks. I think it's more a question of frequency, really - I know my friends in this fandom all care about this stuff, but I'm usually the one bringing different things into conversations. I wonder if they would do it in my absence. Worth thinking about, thanks for the suggestion.