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fandomsecrets2014-01-28 06:56 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2014-01-28 06:56 pm
[ SECRET POST #2583 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2583 ⌋
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(Anonymous) 2014-01-29 03:17 am (UTC)(link)In my experience, doing that can actually make the harassment worse. Ignoring them though, makes that sooner or later they get bored of the lack of answer.
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(Anonymous) 2014-01-29 05:42 am (UTC)(link)no subject
(Anonymous) 2014-01-29 08:48 am (UTC)(link)Yeah, that did occur to me, and I was a bit hesitant when writing my comment. Sometimes bad situations need to be called out, and sometimes it's better if they're ignored. Obviously op knows her situation better than me, and it sounds like she's picked ignoring; if she did want to address it though, I was trying to think of ways she might be able to.
The comments obviously bother her, and one of the ways I know of to deal with harrassent safely is in a group, away from the site of the problem, like the hellisokcupid tumblr, for eg, where horrible messages from dickheads are turned into something women can come together and laugh at, rather than be alone and upset/offended by.