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⌈ Secret Post #2583 ⌋

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Comments

Re: what to do about friends being creeps?

[(Anonymous)]

that's... a really good point. i mean... since he's my friend, i guess i've always been inclined to see the good in him and think of him as being kind of a creep, but not really so bad. but the more i write about him here, the more i realize that maybe he is actually that bad. :/

but he's also literally the only person in the world who i'm not anxious around at all, and the only person i feel i can speak freely to non-anonymously. but that's my problem, and that's something i should work on fixing, maybe instead of continuing to rely on this guy who's... really not a good person, i guess.

Re: what to do about friends being creeps?

[(Anonymous)]

ayrt

I think it's really good that you're realizing that he's not a good person. I think if you keep relying on him, he'll eventually start dragging you down with him and I hope it doesn't come to that. I hope you're able to eventually meet new people to befriend. Maybe you can try to see if there are any organizations in your area that suit your interests (if you're in college, I'm sure there are many on campus) and try to attend a meeting or two. You can even make an Okcupid account or something similar (although okcupid is, obviously, mostly used for romantic purposes it also gives you the option to seek friends and people to just hang out with. I've actually hung out with a few people that I met from there)

Re: what to do about friends being creeps?

[(Anonymous)]

thanks... and yeah, i think it's telling that there's at least one thing i don't want to tell him, not out of anxiety, but because i don't trust him with the information. (specifically, i don't trust him not to use it to manipulate me.)

i've graduated from college (somehow i managed to do so without making any lasting friends), but i have been thinking about joining a chorus for a while now. and maybe a support group (for an unrelated issue) too. maybe i can make some new friends that way. or maybe i can even try to get back in touch with some of my sort-of-friends from college? hm.

thanks for this comment. i'm kind of feeling a little more positive now, at least about my own situation. and i think i will still try to talk to my friend, but... i know that all i can do is talk to him. i can't make him change. and if he doesn't change, he's probably not the sort of person i want to be friends with.

the only thing is that i don't think it'll be so simple to cut myself off from him even if i want to. he's pretty clingy and persistent. which was useful for me when i was too scared to contact anyone but he still always kept in touch with me. but it's also part of his problem.