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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-02-05 06:43 pm

[ SECRET POST #2591 ]


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Re: I came out to my mom's best friend and I think it was a huge mistake

(Anonymous) 2014-02-06 01:43 am (UTC)(link)
Those feelings will pass eventually. Like everything else, it'll take some time for you to work through.

You said that you felt ashamed of saying that you felt ashamed. That's okay. Carol has obviously been out as a lesbian for a long time. So she would be comfortable with her sexuality and who she is. I don't think she would blame you or anything like that; if anything, I think she'd understand more than anyone what you're going through.

It's hard when you "know" things on the one hand, but "feel" differently on the other. It's difficult to wait for those feelings to catch up.

(If it helps, anon... I came out as bi for the first time to an ex-boyfriend. Quite a sweet person, so I trusted him with the information. Immediately afterwards I felt relief, but later on, I totally freaked out. So... I know that feeling.)