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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-02-05 06:43 pm

[ SECRET POST #2591 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2591 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2014-02-06 01:49 am (UTC)(link)
Babies are not pets or accessories. They are fucking inconvenient. Anyone who chooses to have one should be prepared to deal with the fact that it is indeed a full-time job in the beginning and do what's best for the human being they have chosen to create, even if it's no fun for them. Not to mention that taking the newborn to a theater likely isn't going to turn out to be as much fun as it sounds or particularly good for a sleep-deprived new mom, either.

How would you like it if you were still getting used to being out of the womb, you had no reasoning skills or ability to grasp what was going on around you, no way to communicate except crying, no way to leave under your own power, and somebody took your ass into a place full of strange smells, flashing lights and very loud unfamiliar noises for several hours? I bet you'd say, "WHAT THE FUCK, DUDE!" which is exactly what a crying newborn in a theater is doing.

It's not just rude to other moviegoers, it's rude to the kid. If you're lucky enough to have one who's chill about it, that doesn't necessarily mean they're enjoying the experience, just that they can deal with it.

(Anonymous) 2014-02-06 02:00 am (UTC)(link)
THANK YOU.

I understand you want to go see a movie, especially if you've been cooped up during the last few weeks of your pregnancy. No one can fault you for that. But you've just made a new little human and that baby's needs and wants outrank yours for the time being.
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[personal profile] lunabee34 2014-02-06 03:01 am (UTC)(link)
I agree. Movies are too loud for little babies. Even when my daughter had gotten a little older, loud noises terrified her. She spent the beginning of my brother's wedding reception out in the courtyard as far away from the building as she could get sobbing because the loud music physically hurt her (at about four). And then we left because I love my brother but my baby was losing her mind. I know that not all children are as bothered by noise as my daughter was, but I think most movies are too loud for little babies.

(Anonymous) 2014-02-06 07:22 am (UTC)(link)
You sound like the kind of parent whose kids I would love to be around, and I mean that sincerely.
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[personal profile] lunabee34 2014-02-06 12:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Aw. Thank you. :)

(Anonymous) 2014-02-06 07:07 am (UTC)(link)
T H A N K Y O U.
i was starting to get concerned at how fucking dense every around here seems to be.