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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-02-09 03:54 pm

[ SECRET POST #2595 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2595 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2014-02-09 10:53 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm not Japanese myself, but from my experience (and talking with gay Japanese people) I don't think most people would say it's disgusting or sick, but some might say or think that. I'd say it would mostly just be an awkward conversation, but it wouldn't necessarily damn you socially - unless your office or family finds out, which could be a disaster. I would suggest that younger people tend to be more open minded though, and probably care less.

In my experience, it was "okay" for me to be a lesbian because I am a foreigner. Especially as a Westerner (we're seen as more direct and honest, even to a fault). However, I will say that I feel I did lose one Japanese female friend when I told her I was gay - I can't prove it, but we used to hang out almost every week, and after I told her, she was suddenly busy and I never saw her again. Who knows.