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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-02-10 06:55 pm

[ SECRET POST #2596 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2596 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[Star Trek: The Next Generation]


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03.
[The Croods]


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04.
[Elementary]


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05.
[Final Fantasy XIII]


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06.
[SCP Foundation]


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07.
[Philip Seymour Hoffman]


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08.
[Twin Peaks]


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09.
[Richard Armitage]


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10.
[Reign]


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11.
[The Hobbit]


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12.
[Hunger Games]


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13.
[Don't Hug Me I'm Scared]


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14.
[Teen Wolf]


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15.
[Panic! at The Disco/Dallon Weekes]















Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 063 secrets from Secret Submission Post #371.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: FS, my bf and I got into a stupid argument, and I think I might have broken something I can't fi

(Anonymous) 2014-02-11 12:21 am (UTC)(link)
Stick it out, but talk. Tell him everything you've said here. Get it in the open. And try to do something different. Even if it's a small thing, it's the effort that counts. It sounds like you two have just been having a shitty time for a while. But if you've been with him for years (assuming they've been happy years) and you imagined growing old with him, breaking up over a fight like that would be a crying shame. Almost all couples get into incredibly dumb or hurtful fights, but if you can see a future, don't throw in the towel until you've tried everything.

Re: FS, my bf and I got into a stupid argument, and I think I might have broken something I can't fi

(Anonymous) 2014-02-11 12:24 am (UTC)(link)
Agree with the above. Also, if talking seems too difficult to explain, or keeps going into awkward silences, try writing everything down (by hand!) and give it to him to read. That way, you can tell him everything you want, without it getting muddled up in lingering hurt or emotional reactions. And it gives him a less-charged way to "hear" it and process it.