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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-02-10 06:55 pm

[ SECRET POST #2596 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2596 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Star Trek: The Next Generation]


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03.
[The Croods]


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04.
[Elementary]


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05.
[Final Fantasy XIII]


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06.
[SCP Foundation]


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07.
[Philip Seymour Hoffman]


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08.
[Twin Peaks]


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09.
[Richard Armitage]


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10.
[Reign]


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11.
[The Hobbit]


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12.
[Hunger Games]


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13.
[Don't Hug Me I'm Scared]


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14.
[Teen Wolf]


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15.
[Panic! at The Disco/Dallon Weekes]















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Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: FS, my bf and I got into a stupid argument, and I think I might have broken something I can't fi

(Anonymous) 2014-02-11 12:26 am (UTC)(link)
I think, if you still want to be in this relationship, it's definitely worth trying to fix things. I think the first step involves saying something like this:

"I wanted to say that I'm sorry this weekend was so terrible, and I'm sorry for the things I did to contribute to that. I feel like things spiraled out of control between us on Sunday, and I know I said some awful things that I don't really mean. Part of it was because I was feeling terrible already, emotionally and physically, but that doesn't excuse the hurtful things I said. I'd like for us to talk about what happened, and then maybe we can try to make things up to each other. Most of all, I want you to know that I love you and that I'm sorry."

Then, hopefully, you'll be able to talk about what happened, and how you both felt, and if there are underlying problems that need to be worked out between you. Afterwards, the two of you should try to decide on an activity that you'll both enjoy doing together, to make up for the shitty weekend you both had.

If he doesn't want to talk right away, try to respect that, but let him know that you're concerned and you want to try to make things better, when he's ready to talk.

Re: FS, my bf and I got into a stupid argument, and I think I might have broken something I can't fi

(Anonymous) 2014-02-11 12:59 am (UTC)(link)
I pretty much already said as much on the car trip. I believe him when he says he's not angry. He just looked so...defeated. I'll just have to see if communication goes back up, but I probably won't see him in person until on Valentine's, which sort of makes it extra painful/awkward.