[ SECRET POST #2596 ]

[case]

⌈ Secret Post #2596 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[Star Trek: The Next Generation]


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03.
[The Croods]


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04.
[Elementary]


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05.
[Final Fantasy XIII]


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06.
[SCP Foundation]


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07.
[Philip Seymour Hoffman]


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08.
[Twin Peaks]


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09.
[Richard Armitage]


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10.
[Reign]


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11.
[The Hobbit]


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12.
[Hunger Games]


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13.
[Don't Hug Me I'm Scared]


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14.
[Teen Wolf]


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15.
[Panic! at The Disco/Dallon Weekes]















Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 063 secrets from Secret Submission Post #371.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

Re: FS, my bf and I got into a stupid argument, and I think I might have broken something I can't fi

[nyxelestia]

It sounds like you and your boyfriend have weathered some rough times together, and that this weekend was not some kind of regular occurrence or sign of serious underlying problems. It sounds more like you two have just been bottling some things up, and once you hit your low point(s), you both just snapped.

All the stuff you've just told us here? Tell him. Hell, send him a link to this very thread, let him see how you present this information to people outside the relationship - in essence, 'an external perspective'.

Also - I don't know what your living and interaction situations are like, but sometimes people need space from each other and that's okay. It doesn't mean they love each other less. Maybe spend some time apart and get to know who you are on your own, then come back together. If nothing else, time apart means that you should have some stuff to say (in terms of at least being able to tell each other what your time apart has been like, any self-discoveries, etc).

Re: FS, my bf and I got into a stupid argument, and I think I might have broken something I can't fi

[(Anonymous)]

We live apart. I haven't seen him since Monday morning. I called him about 3 times, but conversation was strained and his answers very short. In all cases it was me trying to start a conversation but him not giving much in return. Honestly feel like if we call in a full break now that will be the end of it altogether

Re: FS, my bf and I got into a stupid argument, and I think I might have broken something I can't fi

[nyxelestia]

The only advice I can offer in that sense, then, is to call for a long stretch instead of a break - spend a few weeks or a month or so not contacting each other or talking to each other at all and living your own loves (don't avoid each other, just don't try to see each other, either).

It can be a good source of perspective. You can either cool off and work towards patching up your relationship...or, you can end your relationship from a point of solid understanding of yourself, rather than ending it as a reaction to a specific event/circumstance (even if it's still ending, at least it's a better way to end it).