[ SECRET POST #2596 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2596 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[Star Trek: The Next Generation]


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03.
[The Croods]


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04.
[Elementary]


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05.
[Final Fantasy XIII]


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06.
[SCP Foundation]


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07.
[Philip Seymour Hoffman]


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08.
[Twin Peaks]


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09.
[Richard Armitage]


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10.
[Reign]


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11.
[The Hobbit]


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12.
[Hunger Games]


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13.
[Don't Hug Me I'm Scared]


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14.
[Teen Wolf]


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15.
[Panic! at The Disco/Dallon Weekes]















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Comments

Re: FS, my bf and I got into a stupid argument, and I think I might have broken something I can't fi

[(Anonymous)]

I'm going to try and be as objective as I can, but as someone who has been in a frighteningly similar situation to your "bad weekend"...

He's feeling insecure, and it manifested itself as jealousy and accusations that you broke a promise.

This was at the ten year mark in my relationship. You know what I ended up doing to appease him? Cut myself off from all the friends I had made. Made myself as available to him as possible.

However, our lives were already diverging. I was continuing to grow, mature, and become independent. He was becoming more immature and dependent as the years went by. I wanted to make things work, so I sacrificed and sacrificed and sacrificed...

And in the end? Just a few months shy of 16 years into the relationship, he met and fell in love with a co-worker twenty years his junior, and that was it. He wasn't even open to the possibility of an open relationship, even though he knew I'm polyamorous (but had been monogamous during this relationship because that's what I agreed to), because even though HE could dick around, he didn't want to share me. (WTF?)

I'm single now, and I'm happier than I've ever been.

If you two can somehow work it out in a way that's healthy for both of you, I wish you joy, but this is sending up red flags to me.