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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-02-10 06:55 pm

[ SECRET POST #2596 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2596 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Star Trek: The Next Generation]


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03.
[The Croods]


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04.
[Elementary]


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05.
[Final Fantasy XIII]


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06.
[SCP Foundation]


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07.
[Philip Seymour Hoffman]


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08.
[Twin Peaks]


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09.
[Richard Armitage]


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10.
[Reign]


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11.
[The Hobbit]


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12.
[Hunger Games]


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13.
[Don't Hug Me I'm Scared]


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14.
[Teen Wolf]


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15.
[Panic! at The Disco/Dallon Weekes]















Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 063 secrets from Secret Submission Post #371.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: FS, my bf and I got into a stupid argument, and I think I might have broken something I can't fi

(Anonymous) 2014-02-11 01:29 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm in the territory of breaking up with him, if only because his arguments were super fucking manipulative and set off quite a few red flags, and because you say the two of you are drifting.

Especially after reading your response up top, with you explaining how you weren't ready for a relationship when you two started dating, that is stuff you two NEED to talk about or it will create too much resentment that can potentially ruin your lives in the long run.

Just make sure neither of you use this argument as ammunition in the future to prove a point or something; if he does so in the future, dump him.

If you want you can write into an advice columnist person I like to frequent, Captain Awkward (captainawkward.com). She deals with relationships a good 90% of the time, and gives pretty good advice.