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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-02-10 06:55 pm

[ SECRET POST #2596 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2596 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Star Trek: The Next Generation]


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03.
[The Croods]


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04.
[Elementary]


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05.
[Final Fantasy XIII]


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06.
[SCP Foundation]


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07.
[Philip Seymour Hoffman]


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08.
[Twin Peaks]


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09.
[Richard Armitage]


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[Reign]


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11.
[The Hobbit]


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12.
[Hunger Games]


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13.
[Don't Hug Me I'm Scared]


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14.
[Teen Wolf]


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15.
[Panic! at The Disco/Dallon Weekes]















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Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: FS, my bf and I got into a stupid argument, and I think I might have broken something I can't fi

(Anonymous) 2014-02-11 07:58 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm seeing a lot of "dump the guy" etc in this thread in general, but there were definitely errors on both of your sides.

I can see why he was upset though. It sounds to me that it was supposed to be a weekend where the two of you were to do things together. But then you wanted to go do an activity with someone else, and I can totally see why he flipped his shit, especially if you has been sick and unable to do anything that weekend so far. It was to be time for the two of you to do things that you enjoyed, and with each other. Basically, it was akin to you guys going on vacation together and you ended up spending more time with someone else other than with him.

I'm not sure how you can fix it or if you can fix it, since some really nasty things were said. Communication is definitely the key, though. Good luck.

Re: FS, my bf and I got into a stupid argument, and I think I might have broken something I can't fi

(Anonymous) 2014-02-11 09:14 pm (UTC)(link)
No, the OP isn't blameless, but you're doing all kinds of mental gymnastics to excuse the boyfriend for behaving like a passive-aggressive brat.

It was supposed to be a weekend where the two of you were to do things together.

It wasn't "akin to going on vacation together"; they were participating in an event with a bunch of other people from an organization they belonged to, so both of them could be expected to interact with other people instead of being focused on each other all the time.

I can totally see why he flipped his shit, especially if you has been sick and unable to do anything that weekend so far.

Wait, if a friend is ill and unable to do anything fun, do you really think that is to be held against them and treated as a bargaining chip?--something like "You owe me some time now, because you didn't do anything with me while you were sick!" Because this is exactly how you sound right now.